Things take the time they take. Why do I always forget this? I get impatient. This week’s been a big loading spinner made up of ten thousand little loading spinners, as some weeks are. Everything in my life feels in progress but I suppose that’s how it’s supposed to feel. Where do we go from here? – It’s hard to know for sure, and right now, that question itself feels more important than any of the answers.
On Masculinity
I did an interview for Thrive Global’s series on redefining masculinity for today’s world. I haven’t talked much about how this threads through my writing, but it’s definitely been a significant area of exploration – and cultivation – in my life in the past half-decade. It’s one of those things that feels too personal and scary to talk about or face directly at times, which makes it ripe for working through in fiction.